Your Wedding Gift Etiquette Questions Answered
Getting ready for a wedding? Whether you're attending your first or your fiftieth, figuring out when and how to give wedding gifts can feel a little confusing. We've rounded up everything you need to know—from when to shop to whether cash is okay—so you can show up (or send love) with confidence.
Let’s dive into the dos and don’ts of giving a wedding gift for couples, including thoughtfulpersonalised wedding gifts for couples, clever wedding gift ideas, and the best timing to makesure your present hits just right.
How much should I spend on a wedding gift?
This age-old question doesn’t have one fixed answer. What you spend on gifts for weddings really depends on your relationship with the couple and your own budget. Here's some ideas for you on the average wedding gift spend;
- Close friends or family: $50–$150 is common
- Workmates or distant relatives: $30–$70 is more than okay
- Not attending the wedding? A small gift or a heartfelt card is still a lovely gesture.
It’s not about the price tag—it’s about the thought you put in.
When should I shop for the wedding gift?
Start browsing once the invite arrives. That way, you’ll have time to check their registry (if they have one), get something personalised, or team up with others for a group gift.
Tip: If you're gifting something like personalised glassware or anything custom-made, order early to allow for production time!
What should I buy?
When in doubt, stick to the couple’s registry. It’s curated with things they actually want. But if you’re going off-registry, here are some ideas they’ll love:
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Give the gift of a memorable experience
Sometimes the best wedding gifts arenʼt things—theyʼre memorable experiences.
Experiential gifts like a cooking class, concert tickets, or a relaxing coupleʼs massage offer the newlyweds quality time together after the big day. Bonus points if itʼs something theyʼve mentioned wanting to try! -
Surprise them with a subscription box
Want your gift to keep on giving? Subscription boxes are a fun way to sprinkle joy
month after month. Whether itʼs a curated wine delivery, artisan coffee, or a book
club gift for couples, thereʼs a box for every kind of couple—and every kind of
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Spoil them with something luxe
Newlyweds donʼt always treat themselves, so nowʼs your chance to do it for them.
Think luxury candles, plush robes, or a beautifully engraved decanter set theyʼll
treasure forever. These are the kinds of gifts the happy couple will unwrap and say, “Ohhh wow.ˮ -
Keep it classic with household wedding gifts
Traditional gifts are classics for a reason. Think high-quality cookware, kitchen
accessories, stylish serving boards, or elegant glassware that adds a touch of luxe to their home. These practical presents often become everyday favourites—and are always appreciated.
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Is a group gift appropriate?
Absolutely. A group gift for newlyweds are a great way to pool budgets and splurge on something extra special—like a personalised champagne glassware set or a weekend away. Perfect for bridal party members or office teams.
Can I give a joint engagement party and wedding day gift?
If your budget is tight or you’ve found the perfect gift that feels just right for both occasions, go for it! Just make sure it’s something meaningful and useful, and ideally mention it in your card.
When should I give money as a wedding gift?
Cash is totally acceptable and often welcomed—especially for honeymoon funds, home deposits, or renovation projects. Just pop it into a card or use a digital gift registry if they’ve set one up.
How soon should I give a wedding gift?
Traditionally, you have up to a year post-wedding—but we say don’t wait! It’s best to:
- Send it 1–2 weeks before the wedding
- Or within 3 months after
- Avoid delivery during their honeymoon unless you know someone’s home
Should I bring the gift to the wedding?
If you can help it, no. Most couples don’t want to haul gifts back from the venue. It’s much easier to ship your present to their home. (Bonus: You avoid it getting lost in the shuffle!)
Should I send a gift if I can’t attend the wedding?
Yes, it’s still thoughtful to send a gift or card—especially if you RSVP’d yes and then couldn’t attend. It’s a simple way to celebrate their milestone from afar.
Should I expect a Thank You card?
While most couples send thank-you notes within three months of their special occasion, life happens. Don’t stress if it takes a bit longer. If you haven’t heard anything after a few months, a gentle check-in is fine.
Navigate gift giving with these gift giving etiquette tips
To recap: ✔ Spend what you can afford ✔ Give early, not late ✔ Registry gifts or personalised presents are always a win ✔ Shipping > bringing it to the venue ✔ Cash or group gifts = absolutely fine.
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When Are Wedding Gifts Given?
Wedding gifts are typically given before the wedding day or up to three months after. Avoid gifting on the day itself unless specifically requested.
When Should Wedding Gifts Be Given?
Send your gift when you RSVP or at least a week before the big day. If you're shopping last minute, opt for a digital gift voucher.
When Are Wedding Gifts Opened?
Most couples open their wedding gifts after the honeymoon, once things settle down. So don’t worry if it takes a few weeks to hear back.
When Should Wedding Gifts Be Sent?
Aim to send gifts:
- After the invite, before the big day.
- Or within 2–3 months post-wedding.
- Avoid delivery while the couple is away.
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